I would like to introduce to you Courtney Stiver, she is sharing one of her valentine projects. Check it out and let me know what you think I always enjoy feedback
KID FRIENDLY BATH BOMBS- VALENTINE’S DAY STYLE!
THE CRUNCHY MINIMALIST
Valentine's Day is one of those holidays that people either LOVE or hate. For me, it's a total love. Growing up, my mother always made sure to celebrate each and every special occasion in the biggest way possible. This didn't always mean spending a fortune on new and unnecessary toys and clothes but by spending time together- decorating, making a big dinner and enjoying the day together as a family.
Now, as a mother myself I enjoy celebrating with my children in the same way my own mother did. Holidays are exciting; they give us something to look forward to in the midst of the everyday busy lives we live. I'm not sure I've met anyone who hasn't enjoyed a celebration and for children- celebrations are almost magical.
A tradition that I've carried from my mother is a hands-on craft to celebrate the day. Some of my fondest memories are being in the kitchen with my mom getting our hands dirty and spending time together. It didn't exactly matter what we were making or doing, what mattered most was that she let us help, she let us learn with our hands, she let us be kids.
Valentine's Day is about loving yourself, loving others, doing something you love- and for my kids, that's bath time! One of our favorite hands-on and safe DIY crafts is bath bomb making. Taking a bath is without a doubt our favorite time of the day- throw a bath bomb in there and it's almost impossible to get them out before their fingers start to wrinkle. The scents are amazing, the colors are captivating and the possibilities are endless. Below you'll find the step by step instructions on how to make your very own Valentine's Day bath bomb. While fun, keeping my children safe and healthy is my top priority. All off the ingredients in these bath bombs are all natural and/or organic and the best of quality. The links to each is included.
What you'll need:
1 cup- Baking Soda
1/2 cup- Citric Acid
Food grade and organic
1/2 cup- Cornstarch
1/2 cup- Epsom Salt
2 TBSP- Coconut Oil
Organic, cold pressed and unrefined
1 TBSP- Vanilla Extract
Organic is best
10-12 drops- Food coloring
*artificial food coloring has been linked to ADHD, food sensitivities and allergies.
(silicone works best)
In another bowl, combine the wet ingredients- coconut oil, vanilla extract, food coloring
Slowly incorporate the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients.
Mix together with your hand until completely incorporated.
Be sure the mixture is soft and squishy, though not too wet.
Be sure the mixture is soft and squishy, though not too wet.
Distribute the mixture in the molds. Be sure to pack down the mixture into the mold firmly.
Allow to dry overnight. Pop the bath bombs out of the molds.
Store in sealed container.
*All of the specific items used in this tutorial can be found in this link.
*Please be sure to use an essential oil that is safe for children.
It’s February and cold outside! Come on in and warm up and relax as we introduce Brook Pittman mother of three autistic children. Brook is going to take us on her journey of how she copes with her children.
1. What is it that you would like the world to understand about raising children with autistic diagnosis?
I would love for the world to understand that raising kids who have Autism is difficult, our path is hard to navigate and you are always second guessing yourself and your choices, almost as much as the never-ending train of people closely watching you. We all feel this as mothers at some point I believe, but when things are as complex as they are in our life, those eyes seem to be waiting for something to criticize. I know many people are talking about how beautiful and eye opening it is and what a blessing it is to have a child with Autism. Truth be told, I have three children with Autism, and I would give anything for them to have an easier path in life. I would not want to change who they are. They are beautiful, amazing, smart, and charming little souls, but if Autism did not grip their lives the way it does,my life would be complete. It absolutely breaks my heart to see them struggle with everyday things that people take for granted.
2. What resources have been most helpful to you?
I have had so much help, thank goodness! It truly does take a village, and more so as your child gets older. I think some of the best advice I got was to bring my kids out in the community as much as possible (which is not often as it can be extremely overwhelming) but to make sure that people in the community know them from when they are young and see them as they grow. People will recognize them, and help them and treat them with respect. The more people know. The more people care. I have had some great community resources that have helped. Respite workers, therapists, Other families, behavior consultants, friends, families. Make a team for your kids. People who are invested in the well being of your child.
3. What educational choices have you made for your children? Are they homeschooled, private school, public mainstream or a specialized program?
We have actually had experiences with all of the educational choices. We started with Public school for our oldest in her first year. After that we felt it was best to put her and her younger brother into a private school (which we had to drive to a neighboring town everyday to get to). they went there for two years and it was wonderful. The kids thrived and progressed. Then we had to move away. The place we moved to did not have a private school that would accept us, so we ended up in the public school. That was an absolute disaster. At best. We ended up pulling the kids out half way through the year, as it was actually making our children both greatly regress. At that point, for lack of any other options, we tried home schooling. Thankfully I was able to have some help (with funding) so we made it through (barely). I must give mad props to anyone who is able to home school their kids. The amount of work and patience that goes into that is well beyond my scope or ability! I also am physically disabled (I have a brain and spinal condition that affects me in a million different horrible ways, but i won;t get into it! lol, but it makes this journey a little more taxing. )
We have now put our girls into a new private school and our son into a specialized therapy/school (we moved to another town again to get access to these). All of the children are doing AMAZING in their new places. The progression is astounding. The change in behaviors. The reduction in aggression from our son. I could go on and on, but point is we are all VERY happy with the change.
4. For parents just starting their autism journey what do you feel are the most important first steps to take.
I think the starting of your journey with Autism it would be good to remember
1. Your child is still the person they always have been. A diagnosis will never change the wonderful little person that they are and that you love.
2. Don't feel guilty about grieving when you get the diagnosis. You have to let go of your expectations of what their life was going to look like, so you need to grieve that loss.
3. Don't ever be embarrassed by their often wacky behavior. People will stare, people will give you weird looks, and sometimes they might even say rude, jackass things. Don't let it get to you. Easier said than done, but you will learn that other people's expectations and judgement weighing on you takes your patience away from your child. and your child needs it more. Your child is the important one. If other people want to judge and be asses then so be it. It is none of your business what other people think of you, right?
4. Don't wait to get help. If you suspect that something is not quite right, don't wait to get help. So many people wait, put it off, think, oh well, they will get over it. they will outgrow this. he is just a late talker. She just really likes to spin. I know it is scary. I know you don't want your kid to have "something wrong" but don't let your ego make their journey even harder. The earlier they get help, the better they will do! :) Make sure to find a behavior consultant (they may call them something else in different places) but someone who is able to help guide yondu to the services that will benefit your child.
5. Have you read any books on autism that have helped you?
I have read a few books that have helped. I know that there are some mixed feelings on Jenny McCarthy but I liked her books, I read them as we were just in the midst of the diagnosis process and they helped me have some hope and opened my eyes to looking at different ways to help the kids. I have also read the Un-prescription for Autism which has tons of great info and Nutritional Deficit Disorder super awesome.
If you would like to find out more about Brook
check out her website www.brookpittman.com/
Hi, I'm Marcie Kenny, the women behind this blog. I am not a mother, but I am number seven in a family of nine. I worked in childcare for many years before retiring; now I enjoy blogging about all that I have learned along the way.